Be sure to watch Past Lives before our meeting!  

Dear Friends and cinema lovers,

We are delighted to invite you to our first in 2026  thoughtful discussion of one of the most poignant and tender films of recent years — the romantic drama Past Lives, directed by Celine Song. 

This profound story of destiny, love, and choice — unfolding over two decades and across continents — invites us to reflect on who we are and who we might have become. 

Topics for Reflection and Discussion (of course you're welcome to ask your own questions)

🕊 Grief for the “Unlived Life”
Does Nora experience a kind of psychological grief as she says goodbye to the version of herself who might have stayed with Hae Sung? How do we cope with the loss of our alternative paths? 

💭 Idealization of the Past
Is Hae Sung a real person for Nora — or a symbol of her youth and the life left behind? How does nostalgia influence the decisions we make as adults? 

❤️ Arthur’s Emotional Intelligence
How do you interpret Arthur’s calm and empathy toward Hae Sung’s visit? What does it reveal about his self-awareness and the emotional maturity of their marriage? 

And Perhaps we’ll touch on
🌌 The Concept of In-Yun
What is the role of this Korean idea of karmic connection from past lives? How does it shape the film’s perception of love and fate?
🌍 The Two Noras
How did immigration and the name change affect Nora’s sense of identity? What do her “Korean” and “American” selves symbolize?
🗣 Language as a Barrier and a Bridge
What changes in Nora and Hae Sung’s connection when they speak Korean — and when English enters their dialogue?  

📅 Date: 18. 01.2026
🕕 Time: 16:00
📍 Location: Tumblingerstr. 50
80337 München
⏳ Duration: 1.5–2 hours  

We look forward to exploring together the subtle emotions, cultural layers, and philosophical questions raised by this remarkable film. 

With warmth and anticipation,
Amy & Nataly